Once your kids are 6+ and independent enough to occupy themselves during a flight, the difficulty and exhausting nature of travelling with babies and little children are easily forgotten (I actually get to read a book these days!). However, my bestie has an 18 month old and another one of my friends recently had a baby, bringing the challenges of travelling with little ones back to the forefront.
The experience of travelling with babies and little children can be challenging and overwhelming to say the least. But by the time they reach school-age, the journey becomes relatively easier. However, there are a few glitches every parent should be prepared for.
No matter how hard a parent may try to make sure their kids are not disruptive during a flight, there is still a chance of an accidental upheaval and that’s ok. It’s unnerving for the parents who have to deal with powering through the flight, while also trying to manage their little one’s mood.
At the same time, negative reactions from fellow passengers who don’t even bother to understand the ordeal can spoil the experience altogether. Having been a parent of an 18-month-old who refused to stay quiet during a trip, I know how upsetting it can be to be on the receiving end of dirty looks. It’s important to note that the parents are doing their best, and all they need is some patience and empathy.
That’s why I think kudos is in order for all the mums travelling with babies and little children. They may not get much acknowledgment, but the sheer commitment and energy they put into surviving the journey with the little ones deserves appreciation.
Plus, if you’re travelling with your own kids, why not offer help to the mums travelling solo? It takes a village after all, and lending a hand when possible can make a world of difference for everyone.
When my son was little I used to do at least 1 leg to Australia on my own, and know how uncommonly helpful it is when other passengers understand and go out of their way to lend you a helping hand.
That’s why it’s so important to show some respect and kindness to these mums who are on their way with kids in tow. It’s not an easy task, but these mamas make sure everyone reaches their destination safe and sound.
Give them a round of applause instead of a dirty look!
By Eva Larsson